Supporting · Corrective
Care Preserves Particulars
Care keeps the specific person, case, circumstance, and context visible when rules and averages would otherwise erase them.
Pure discretion can become arbitrary, but pure rule-following can misread the person or case. - Rules protect floors - Particulars require attentive judgment Care keeps the specific person, case, circumstance, and context visible when rules and averages would otherwise erase them.
Problem
Pure discretion can become arbitrary, but pure rule-following can misread the person or case.
Forces
- Rules protect floors
- Particulars require attentive judgment
Observation
Care keeps the specific person, case, circumstance, and context visible when rules and averages would otherwise erase them.
Pattern language
- Supporting pattern
- Corrective dynamic — tends to restore contact with reality
- Organizing force: Contact
- Master pattern: Reality Answers Back
At a glance
What it does
Care keeps the specific person, case, circumstance, and context visible when rules and averages would otherwise erase them.
Why it matters
Pure discretion can become arbitrary, but pure rule-following can misread the person or case.
Counterbalance
Let rules establish a floor of protection while preserving bounded spaces for attentive judgment about particulars
Counterbalances
- Let rules establish a floor of protection while preserving bounded spaces for attentive judgment about particulars
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Outgoing dynamics2 relationships
expresses
Corrective dynamic: how systems remain open to reality answering back.
weakens
Care for particulars counteracts compression that loses the person.
Incoming dynamics3 relationships
weakens
Distance from consequence weakens care for particulars.
enables
Restored attention strengthens care that preserves particulars.